YOUnique

u·nique   [yoo-neek] 

adjective

1. existing as the only one or as the sole example; single; solitary in type or characteristics

1. having no like or equal; unparalleled; incomparable

There is no-one else, alive or dead, who has ever experienced exactly where you are. The combination of physical, mental, emotional and spiritual pulls that make you YOU, make you truly unique.

To know that, that no-one else can, or will, ever be you is phenomenal. Imagine that! Without even trying you are one of a kind, unparalleled, incomparable and completely awesome. For every good thing, every bad thing, everything in between, it's time to ...

With this in mind, can you give yourself ... and others ... some slack? Since no-one will ever really "get it", can you give them credit for trying? Allow them the space to help and allow yourself the space to heal? Don't be mad when someone you love falls short; when they don't know exactly where you are coming from, or can't preempt your feelings.
Equally don't get frustrated, panicked, anxious or depressed when you make mistakes. There is no blueprint for you. What has gone before can act as a guide, like a memory of a journey once traveled, one that has been partially forgotten, changed by environment and time, and has so many unexplored twists and turns. But it is no more than a guide, your journey is yours alone.

When you do you, you are outstanding, perfect and exactly as you should be.

So cheers to that.

I'd love to hear some of the unique things that you have learnt to love - leave me a comment below ...